Family isn’t all about blood. The people in your life love to have you. Those who encourage you to improve in a healthy and thrilling way. Those who accept you, for what you are, those who always want you to smile. These people are a real family. They are the kind of people who appreciate you and want you to be there in their lives. Here are some tips that will help you find and start making in your relationship.

Free yourself from negative people

Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be select friends who are proud to be with you. You will get your own freedom if you free yourself from negative people. You will become an independent person who thinks positively.

Let go of those who are already gone

The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. We rarely lose friends and lovers we just gradually figure out who are our real ones. So when people walk away from you let them go. There’s the fear of being alone and not being able to find someone else. It is difficult to hold on to people in life. Let go of those who are already gone and be thankful for the life lessons which they have taught you.

Show everyone kindness and respect

If you want to know others treat you, the best starting place is to look at how you treat others and if you don’t like the way you are treated. There is only one thing to do, you need to change anyone else’s. Treat people the way you want to be treated respected and will get better.

Appreciate for new relationship

Every person represents a story of their own. We will meet different people in our life. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. Therefore embrace the new relationships when you can learn new things for your life.

Encourage others and cheer for them

Look for ways to encourage one another. Acknowledge others’ abilities and efforts you can give a compliment and share stories about your day. Be happy for those who are making progress cheer for their victories. Be thankful for their blessing, openly what goes around, and sooner or later, the people you’re cheering for will start cheering for you.

Accept people just the way there are

Don’t try to change others, because people have different styles of living instead of trying to change others, you need to give them your support and lead by example.

Be your imperfectly perfect self

There is not a single perfect person in this world. It takes some courage to become imperfectly perfects and understand that how hard you try, people will always find fault in you. When they laugh at you for being different, laugh back at them for being the same .spend more time with those who you feel pressured to impress. Be your imperfectly perfect self around them. Those who try to perfect or please everyone are very unhappy from the inside. Therefore always be yourself and love yourself for who you are. You will feel that you are the happiest and healthiest person in the world.

Forgive people and move on

People will try to put you down in your life. It will happen to every human in this world but don’t live your life with hate in your heart. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you are erasing the past or forgetting what happened. This means that you let go of the resentment and pain and also rather than choose to learn from the incident and move on with your life. You’ll end up hurting yourself more than anyone you hate. Look at what you have learned from others. Therefore, keep in mind that the less time you spend hating people who hurt you, the more time you will have to love people who love you.

Do little things every day for others

Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts. You can’t do anything for anyone. But you can be anything for some people. Decide who these people are in your life and treat them like royalty.

Pay attention to who your real friends are

As we grow up we realize, It becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones. Life is like a party. You will invite a lot of people, some leave early, others stay overnight, others laugh with you, others laugh at you and others arrive very late. But in the end, after the fun, there are some that stay to help you clean up the mess. Difficult times will always show a real friend. So be thankful for real friends. Who will support you? Those people are real friends of your life. 

Always be loyal

True love and real friendship cannot be inseparable. Loyal friends are not jealous of your success. Because they are happy to see you in happy. So be loyal to them back.

Keep your promises and tell the truth. If you say you are going to do something DO IT!. If you say you are going to be somewhere BE THERE!. If you say you feel something MEAN IT!. It is always better to tell people the truth. Don’t play games with people’s heads and hearts. Remember love and friendship don’t hurt. Lying cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurt. Never mess with someone’s feelings just because you‘re unsure of yours always be honest and be open.

Talk a little less and listen more

People don’t need lots of advice they need a listening ear and some positive thoughts. If we are willing and able to listen to others, we will find it much appreciated by our friends. Some people are not aware of how much they dominate the conversation listen with your ears and your heart. “Nature gave us one lounge and two  we could  hear twice as much as we speak”

Allow others  to  make their own decision

Don’t judge others by your own past they are living a different life than you are. What might be good for one person may not be good for another. What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better. Allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decision.


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